Here Are a Few Tips for Men Who Love BBWs!
Gone are the days when skinny women were the epitome of sexy. With plus-size models such as Ashley Graham gracing runways and the covers of famous fashion magazines, it is safe to say that chubby and curvy is the new go-to figure for many men.
Women who have more 'cushion' are perceived as more attractive. Naturally, men will first notice a woman with wider hips and double Ds more than their smaller-framed counterparts.
Many people may not care to admit it, but several men spend a considerable amount of time trawling images of well-endowed women on the internet. Do not get it wrong; some men are not nearly attracted to chubby women. However, if you are fascinated by the big beautiful woman's anatomy and would like to explore these feelings further, here is some advice for you.
Do Not Fetishize Her
From kinky roleplays to spanking, most of us have fetishes we would love fulfilled. If one of your sexual desires is to be with a BBW, let it not be the relationship's baseline. Plump women feel special that you chose to date them. However, it derives no pleasure knowing that you are with them for their body.
Women love men who see beyond the physical appearance. For this reason, it is of the utmost importance to get to know the big beautiful woman you are dating better.
For a lasting relationship, connect with her on a deeper level. If you only seem to care about her 'assets' and how much she weighs, you are in trouble.
Compliments Go a Long Way
When dating BBWs, the importance of perfecting the art of giving compliments cannot be over-emphasized. Most plus-size women have been through the body-shaming phase. They have, at one point in their lives, been victims of mean uncalled-for comments. For this reason, they need affirmation on their looks.
Unexpected compliments prove that you are interested in pursuing a relationship and that you find them attractive. They will also spice up a faltering relationship.
When dating a thick lady, exercise the power of giving compliments. Not only will she appreciate the sentiments, but the compliments will also elevate your love for one another.
Never Lie about Their Weight
A golden rule in dating is to never refer to your girlfriend as fat.
The weight issue will crop up more than a few times. It might not be from you or her, but from the people around her. When such scenarios present themselves, and someone throws shade about their thick figure, reassure her that she is beautiful and you love her for those sexy curves.
Refrain from making comments that imply that she is not plump. Of course, she has the extra weight, and she knows it. Lying about her weight paints you as dishonest, which will not sit well with her.
Take Her out
BBWs are rarely superficial and may prefer a Netflix-and-chill night to a funky one at the local bar. However, this is no excuse to allow the relationship to bloom behind closed doors only.
Chubby ladies, just like other women, love dating a man who is proud to be with them in public. They want a man who suits-up and takes them to a fancy restaurant, where they can enjoy a hearty meal without being subjected to unnecessary judgments.
Be a Gentleman
BBWs seem to have everything figured out. That is among the first impressions people tend to have when pursuing them. They are nothing close to damsels in distress.
Big beautiful women look mature. However, they are still girls at heart who need a gentleman to melt their hearts.
Being a gentleman is less about opening car doors and pulling chairs – although doing these will earn you extra points. The modern version of a gentleman is one who never keeps his lady waiting, is a good listener, and one who always pays attention to their lady.
BBWs are amazing, to say the least, and being hooked and dating one is among the best things you can do for yourself. By implementing the tips above, you strategically position yourself to have a loving and fulfilling dating relationship with a chubby girl.
Dating a thick girl is, in fact, trendy. Do not be left out!
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