OurTime Review


More and more people over 50 are accessing the online dating world. Unfortunately, most mainstream dating sites are aimed at the younger generation. OurTime realizes that love is for everyone. Is this your time to find love again?

Check out our full review below.

7 OurTime Facts at a Glance

  • Aimed at men and women over 50
  • Male to female ratio is almost 1:1
  • An app is available
  • Signing up to this site gives you access to other senior dating sites
  • Subscription needed to access most features
  • Majority of users in late 40s
  • Launched in 2011

About OurTime

There are many niche sites when it comes to online dating. Most senior dating sites target the casual hookup demographic. OurTime does things a little differently. This is a dating site for similar-aged people to find love and romance.

OurTime is a welcoming community of singles who are 40 and above. It is also a great place to find friends and pen-pals. Everyone gets lonely sometimes. OurTime unites lonely souls who are looking for companionship, in whatever form that may be. The site also gives you option to search for friends, pen-pals, dates, long-term romantic relationships, and marriage partners. 

OurTime was founded in 2011 as part of OurTime Community of People Media. OurTime Community of People Media also created SeniorsMeet and SeniorPeopleMeet. When you sign up to one, you get access to the other two dating sites as well. This massively increases your chances of finding that special someone and makes an OurTime subscription amazing value for money. 

Member Structure
OurTime Member Structure

OurTime boasts 8 million worldwide visitors per month. 7.7 million members are based in the US. There are currently over 1,500,000 members in total. That is a lot of potential new friends or partners.

55% of OurTime users are men, and 45% are women. Whilst it is common that male users outweigh female members, it is unusual for the male to female ratio to be so close. In addition, 180,000 people use this service on a regular basis.

How do I join OurTime?

How to join OurTime

To join OurTime, you will need to fill in a simple questionnaire. You’ll be asked for information such as your gender, location, age, and sexual preference. You will need to answer questions about your appearance too. Don’t let this put you off. Everyone answers these questions to make sure they can find the most compatible partner.

The site will ask for your email and also if you want to hear about offers and invites to events near you. You must enter an email address, but you can opt out of receiving these kinds of message.

Signing up is simple with easy to follow instructions. If the thought of doing anything technical puts you off online dating, this is a great place to start. You don’t need to sign up straight away to browse the site, so take your time and get to know the place first.


OurTime has a minimalist design. It is easy to navigate between its features with clearly-labelled titles and menus. There is nothing flashy about the layout; it has been created with ease of use as a priority first and foremost.

Profile Creation
OurTime Profile Creation

Creating a profile in OurTime is straightforward with a series of easy to follow instructions. There are plenty of information boxes to fill out or not fill out as you choose. Most members find that the more information they impart about themselves, the more likely another member will contact them. You can upload several pictures, and you will choose one as your profile picture. Make sure you are the only person in the image with a clear view of your face, or the OurTime team may not accept it.

There are a few fake profiles on this site and people who want to take financial advantage of its users. It is important to stay safe by not sharing information such as your exact address or workplace.

Searching and Matchmaking
OurTime Searching and Matchmaking

You can use the search filter to see potential matches without paying for membership. If you want to filter out any dormant profiles, you can opt to only see profiles of members who are online. If you have seen the same faces several times, there is an option to see only new profiles.

When using the search function, you can apply several filters:

  • Member must have photos
  • Body type
  • Relationship status - single, divorced, separated, or widowed.
  • Has children or not
  • Location
  • What the user is looking for
  • Religion
  • Ethnicity
  • Zodiac sign
  • Smoker or non-smoker
  • Age range

Premium members also get access to featured matches. These are potential matches based on the criteria of the person you are looking for.

Contacting Other Members

If you are a free OurTime user, you cannot send another user a message. You can send them a flirt or wink to show them you are interested. Becoming an OurTime premium member grants, you access to chat rooms and also gives you the ability to read and send messages.

You can also set up virtual dates with the video chatting feature. This is wonderful for helping you discover whether or not you have a genuine connection. This feature is only available to premium members. Also, you can only start a video chat once you have sent and received 4 messages from a member.

We found there are a lot more chat options than many other standard dating sites which target the same demographic.

Pros and Cons
  • You can view profiles before paying for membership
  • Profiles are generally quite detailed
  • Good usability and attractive design
  • Registration is fast and simple
  • A variety of chatting options
  • More than just a dating site with a community of people also looking for friends
  • Great value for money with access to two other sites for the price of one.
  • Nice atmosphere with no sleaze.
  • Balanced gender proportions
  • Option to pay someone else to make your profile stand out
  • A place where scam artists will try and take advantage of the older generation
  • There are some fake profiles on the site
  • Attracts gold diggers
Pricing Plans

The standard OurTime subscription gives you access to all of the aforementioned chat features. The value subscription unlocks a few more features. This allows you to stand out by changing the background color of your profile and messages. It also notifies you when a member reads a message you’ve sent.

Standard subscription
1 month
Standard subscription
6 months
95.76 USD
Value subscription
6 months
119.76 USD
Free services
OurTime offers a number of free features to all users. Check them out below.
  • Registration
  • Use the search feature
  • View profiles
  • Create a profile
  • Send a flirt
Paid services
Paid services vary depending on the type of membership you choose. However, you should expect the following:
  • Send and receive messages
  • Use chat rooms
  • Access video chat
  • Connect me - a virtual phone number so you can chat without disclosing your real number
  • Virtual gifts
  • Promote me - gets your profile more views
  • Profile pro - a member of the OurTime team, will pimp up your profile for you
Payment Methods

You can pay via credit or debit card. You can also use PayPal. If these options aren’t viable, you can send a personal cheque to a secure address.

Expert’s Conclusion

The online dating world has finally opened its eyes and arms to people over 50. This is a common age to be looking for love, and the mature dating community keeps growing. OurTime is stylish and easy to use. We love the options to find pen-pals and friends as well as lovers.

The site is also easy to navigate, even for the most tech timid of users. Plus, the variety of chatting options puts this site above the rest. The atmosphere is warm and welcoming and not at all sleazy. It is great value for money.

Our only criticism of this wonderful site is that it attracts people who see the elderly as easy financial targets. Our advice is to proceed with caution and don’t give any sensitive information that can be used against you. We genuinely haven’t come across a better dating site for senior singles - a pleasure to review from start to finish!

Can I send messages on OurTime for free?

You cannot send messages. However, you can send flirts to let someone know you find them attractive.

How do I pass the OurTime photo verification?

OurTime does not have an identity verification system, so you should just be able to upload photos.

How do I block someone on OurTime.com?

Go onto the profile of the member you wish to block. Click the three dots icon in the top right of the page and click “blacklist”.

Dr. Diana Kirschner
Dr. Diana Kirschner
PBS Love Expert, Psychologist and Bestselling Author, Dr. Diana Kirschner, stars in the Amazon Special, Love in 90 Days.
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